Trying to remote into my PC, but every once in a while, an update will restart my computer.

I can't remote in with Moonlight unless I'm physically present to login to my account (and thus start all the processes needed to get Moonlight working). Is there any way to bypass this like having a user account load up necessary processes without being logged in first?

Note that I would still like to keep my password locking just for physical access protection (I live with nosy people)